Continued from part 1...
As we lose that critical link to who we are, our bodies, our fellow
humans, I think life becomes less valuable. And then it is taken for
I cannot tell you the number of times I see people sit across
from one another in a restaurant but are each lost in the screen of
their phones. They do not look at each other. They do not speak. They
don't even seem aware of their surroundings (I think the current zombie
craze is no accident).
I have got to think this escape
from the physical world causes stress and confusion and detachment
because it is not our natural state of being. It creates a sense of
anxiety that if you aren't connected, you're missing something.
disconnect is even more pronounced in larger cities, I think. Here in a
small-town, people still help each other when they're down in very
tangible, practical ways on a daily basis. They connect at the grocery
store and post office and bank. Things here are very personal. Not so
great when your runaway car crashes on a Monday morning, but really wonderful most of the time.
lived in Salt Lake City once, a city of one million. I knew almost no
one. Not my neighbors certainly. I was in a tiny dark apartment, alone
and sad, and spent hours on the computer with people I'd never met just
to compensate for my lack of connection. I felt like a phantom, a ghost.
It was terrible and depressing and I made a point after that to center
myself in the real physical world and make friends and hobbies and a
is such a sense of pride and accomplishment in doing something on your
own, even as simple as filling a tire with air. When you require a
machine to do it for you, that's a hit to your self-worth. And with that
hit begins a vicious cycle. You lose confidence, so you turn more to
machines, which in turn lowers your self esteem even more. And if you
don't have confidence in yourself, how can you feel confident in anyone
the difference between a candy bar and a healthy full meal. One offers
fake comfort with little value, a sugar rush that soon ebbs leaving you
drained and dazed. The other gives your body - or in this case your
spirit and your soul - what it truly needs. Sustenance. Vitality.
Real life and really living.
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